Sandeep Mishra Electrical Engineer, Gold Medalist, Senior Executive, Poet, Tabla Enthusiast. आजादी का जश्न‌ अस्सी सालों की आजादी ,आज भी अधूरी है देश‌ हमारा बने समृद्ध, हर दिशा में प्रगति जरुरी है। जाति,धर्म और भाषा का, हमको भेद मिटाना है , अंदर और बाहर के दुश्मन से देश हमें बचाना है । हो शिक्षा ऐसी कि सब युवाओं को रोजगार मिले हर क्षेत्र का हो विकास, देश हमारा विकसित बने। समरसता और सद्भाव का देश में प्रसार जरुरी है, अस्सी सालों की आजादी,आज भी अधूरी है। संदीप मिश्रा 15/08/2026

Pooja Dixit I am a Commerce graduate from Mumbai University. I have worked for 9 years in the service industry before motherhood came calling. I am a proud mother of a teenager, and a homemaker. Since we celebrated Independence Day a few days back, I am thankful that this topic is being discussed. This makes the reader enter the article through the writer's personal perspective. Since we celebrated Independence Day a few days back, I am thankful that this topic is being discussed. What is freedom for me? Being a homemaker, freedom for me is simple. It is when I don’t have any pending chores at home. Or when I am done with the chores for a particular day, as everyone will agree, there is perpetual work at home. Dishes get dirty again and again, clothes have to be packed into the washing machine forever, dust in Mumbai keeps accumulating, stomachs keep getting hungry as well. The list is as perpetual as the chores themselves. Anyway, these problems are of a homemaker. I am sure the same may be true of a person in service or business as well. Freedom for a person in service may be to enjoy a holiday away from work, or for a businessman to be away from all the risk taking and decision making. Then what is freedom? Is freedom related to the past, at all times? Is tomorrow’s freedom dictated by today’s turmoil? Then why isn’t freedom revisited, its basis being today? For our freedom fighters, freedom would have meant freedom of speech, freedom of expression, right to live, etc. which is enshrined in our Constitution. After Independence was achieved, what does freedom mean to us, the basic rights of expression, speech etc. having been achieved? As a Hindu, is freedom being able to pray to any God, to go to any temple, or to take part in any religious gathering? As a lady, is freedom feeling safe wherever I go, irrespective of the time? As a human being, freedom is being able to walk around safely, being able to breathe pure air, get pure drinking water, and being able to eat good food when hungry. In achieving this freedom, is it okay if someone else’s freedom is getting disturbed? Like, can I have loudspeakers in any religious gathering, or can I keep my surroundings clean while pushing the garbage outside? Freedom goes hand in hand with duties, one cannot survive without the other. Can we achieve freedom for ourselves as a nation, by having different goals? All freedom fighters had a common goal, either through violence or nonviolence, to send the Britishers out of India. What goals do we have as a nation now, or do we have individual goals and we think that they will add up somehow? I think it is important to redefine, to revisit, to change constantly. Form a group for a common goal, abolish it when a goal is achieved, and then start from scratch again, constantly coming together for common goals. So, as I brace myself for yet another day of chores, I constantly remind myself there is more to life. Freedom for me is freedom in all aspects, in all respects. Being a homemaker is just one aspect of life, life is more, ever changing, ever surviving, ever adapting. Maybe the joy is in the process and not in the end, when a new process is to be started.

Dr Shweta Bahety BHMS (Gold Medalist), FCAH MD Scholar. Instagram Freedom: this one word carries the essence of one’s being. Freedom: the liberation, the independence is that one thing that EVERY creature craves to attain, be it a small fish in the aquarium or the domesticated colorful canaries, or the animals in the zoo, or our Rapunzel in her tower. To take decisions by oneself, to have a taste of life like never before. As the famous lyrics convey “What a Wonderful World!” We are indeed privileged to be free from the external restrictions in current times to a great extent. But again, are we really free? Freedom seems to be very similar to happiness, something we keep on pursuing, without really knowing, we have attained it or not. Every one has their own freedom to attain: freedom from internal conflicts, from own past experiences on which one constantly dwells, from that lingering guilt, from many imaginary fears, from self -pity, from being controlled by own habits. These are the mesh of webs we often get entangled in. Freedom is that state of mind one attains in which one is unfettered from the worldly anxieties and issues. Making a shift from self-pity to taking up self-accountability. Every choice is yours and every consequence that follows from it is also yours. Mistakes, learnings and success is all yours. Now, this is a challenge: to break free from that constant whisper of self-doubt and the cocoon of comfort that provides much solace before daring to make that final move to attain that much longed destination. A famous saying says: “Birds in a cage think that flying is an illness”. To acknowledge that there are a whole lot of possibilities in the first place is freedom. To be able to take that very first step forward is freedom. It is a journey I would say with many stops which will come in the way. This same pattern can be reflected in each facet of our existence, be it education, health and fitness, finances, any skill development, or it may be a simple conversation with a stranger. Freedom without being fragile and vulnerable is the key here. Let’s not confuse freedom with a complete lack of structure or making haphazard choices. Today, we speak of being free from waged working hours, freedom from pressures and timelines, but may be somewhere down the line, there are certain things that get eroded like commitment, lack of structure and many a times discipline gets compromised. This is not freedom; it is a spoiler alert! A set of values, a fixed schedule and a clarity of mind give a better way to navigate. To make a wiser choice for your health, expenses, indulgences might appear restrictive, sometimes even painful but are actually liberating as these decisions are guided by discipline. In my opinion, freedom is to be achieved by taking steps and being grateful for what has been achieved so far and then, to act responsibly by the virtue of this precious gift!

Aniruddha Mehta Business Consultant, Music Enthusiast, and Lifelong Learner. LinkedIn ; Profile The philosophical dilemma surrounding the concepts of destiny (Prarabdha) and self-effort (Purushartha) has captivated human thought for millennia. A profoundly challenging existential question arises when examining the earthly lives of the most revered figures in Hindu theology: Lord Rama and Lord Krishna. If these beings are the supreme incarnations of the Divine, their material existences appear paradoxically fraught with immense sorrow, dislocation, warfare, and tragic culmination. A cursory observation of their lives reveals a relentless succession of hardships. For Rama, this includes royal exile, the abduction of his spouse, a catastrophic war, and ultimate separation from his immediate family. For Krishna, the narrative is equally harrowing, beginning in a prison cell, involving the slaughter of his infant siblings, entailing a lifetime of political warfare, and concluding with the fratricidal annihilation of his entire clan and a solitary death in a forest. If such intense suffering and seemingly inescapable destiny govern the lives of the Divine on earth, it naturally begs the ultimate philosophical question: What is the value of human exertion? Why should an ordinary individual strive, practice righteousness, and work laboriously if destiny seemingly spares no one, not even the supreme deities? This comprehensive report conducts an exhaustive theological, textual, and philosophical analysis of this paradox. By examining the structural framework of the Law of Karma, the specific events of the Ramayana and the Mahabharata, and the authoritative treatises of the Bhagavad Gita and the Yoga Vasistha, this analysis will demonstrate that the hardships faced by Rama and Krishna do not negate the value of free will. Rather, their lives serve as the ultimate exaltation of Purushartha (self-effort). Destiny may dictate the material circumstances one encounters, but free will dictates the conscious response. The greatness of these Avatars lies not in their exemption from cosmic laws, but in their flawless, dharmic navigation of the most agonizing circumstances fate could present. The Theology of the Avatar: Divinity Bound by Mortal Elements To comprehend why entities universally acknowledged as supreme deities endured such intense suffering, one must first deconstruct the theological mechanics of an Avatar (divine incarnation). The Sanskrit noun avatāra derives from the prefix ava- (down) and the root tṛ (to cross over), signifying a deliberate descent of the Divine into the material realm to restore cosmic balance (Dharma). However, this descent is not a superficial masquerade; it necessitates the absolute acceptance of material limitations, natural laws, and the consequences of time and space. The nineteenth-century mystic Sri Ramakrishna Paramahamsa articulated this complex concept by explaining that when the Supreme Reality incarnates, it assumes a human body and subjects itself to the exact physiological and psychological parameters of humanity. The Avatar becomes subject to hunger, thirst, disease, sorrow, and even fear. Sri Ramakrishna profoundly noted that "Even Brahman laments when bound by the five elements". He utilized the analogy of a wall with a hole: the Avatar is bound on one side of the wall (the material world) but can view the infinite expanse on the other side through the hole, maintaining communion with the Absolute while navigating the finite. The pedagogical purpose of the Avatar provides the primary reason for their suffering. If Rama had simply vaporized the demon king Ravana with a divine thought, or if Krishna had resurrected his dead siblings from Kamsa's prison with a wave of his hand, their lives would offer no instructional value to humanity. Sri Aurobindo, in his analysis of evolutionary and involutionary consciousness, pointed out that the Divine descends into the material world precisely to forge a path through it. The Avatar must experience suffering and engage in intense, localized effort to discover and demonstrate the solutions to that suffering. They set aside their divine omnipotence so it can manifest as an actionable human roadmap. Thus, the suffering of Rama and Krishna is a deliberate, pedagogical acceptance of the Law of Karma, designed to teach mankind adherence to duty, the power of detachment, and the methodology of spiritual liberation in the face of inevitable worldly pain. Deconstructing the Life of Rama: The Triumph of Dharma over Adversity Lord Rama is universally revered in the Hindu tradition as Maryada Purushottama, the supreme personification of righteousness operating strictly within human boundaries. His life is characterized by an unyielding adherence to Dharma (duty), regardless of the agonizing personal cost. An analysis of the specific hardships in Rama's life—often cited as evidence of a cruel destiny—reveals that each event was an intricate interplay of cosmic necessity and profound self-effort. The trajectory of Rama's life is marked by continuous displacement and sacrifice. Born as a prince and heir to the Ikshvaku dynasty, his first major life event was leaving the comforts of the palace to serve Sage Vishwamitra in the perilous forests. This was not a hardship imposed by a cruel fate, but the willful establishment of the Brahmacharya ashrama (student phase), demonstrating that regardless of royal birth, the acquisition of knowledge requires humility, service, and exposure to adversity. The true test of destiny arrived on the eve of his coronation, when he was banished to the forest for fourteen years (Vanvas) due to the machinations of his stepmother, Kaikeyi. While this appears to be a cruel and sudden stroke of fate orchestrated by a family member, Rama's reaction defines his theological greatness. In the Ayodhya Kanda of the Valmiki Ramayana, his brother Lakshmana reacts with furious, righteous anger, explicitly blaming a weak and pitiable destiny and advocating a military coup to seize the throne by force. Rama, however, pacifies Lakshmana by acknowledging the power of destiny (Daiva) in altering human circumstances beyond immediate control. Rama notes that destiny can be inferred when an unintended action occurs without a visible cause, pointing out that Kaikeyi, who had always loved him equally to her own son Bharata, could only act so out of character under the influence of providence. However, recognizing destiny's role in the sudden loss of the kingdom did not make Rama a fatalist. Instead, he exercised his supreme free will to honor his father's word, choosing the exceedingly difficult path of Dharma over the politically expedient path of rebellion. Following his exile, his wife Sita was abducted by the Rakshasa king, Ravana. This catastrophic event triggered Rama's human grief, leading him to lament deeply, showing his complete identification with the human emotional spectrum. Yet, this event was the cosmic catalyst for the Ramavatara—the destruction of tyrannical evil. Rather than wallowing in paralyzing despair, Rama exhibited immense Purushartha (self-effort). He did not miraculously summon an army of celestial deities; instead, he trudged through the wilderness, built tactical alliances with the Vanara tribes, organized a global search, engineered a bridge across the ocean, and fought a grueling, bloody war where countless lives were lost. This massive exertion underscores that even the Divine must employ systematic effort to counteract evil in the material plane. Upon returning to Ayodhya victorious, the tragedy of Rama's life deepened. Societal murmurs and skepticism regarding Sita's purity during her captivity led to her second, heartbreaking exile. As a result, Sita did not stay with him, and his sons, Lava and Kusha, were raised away from him in the hermitage of Sage Valmiki. Ultimately, Sita chose to return to the earth (taking Samadhi), leaving Rama to rule alone. Furthermore, textual histories often note that there is little glorious continuation of his immediate lineage in the same epic proportions. These events are not indictments of a failed life, but illustrations of the brutal sacrifices demanded by Rajadharma (the absolute duty of a sovereign). Rama sacrificed his personal marital happiness, his fatherhood, and his emotional comfort to maintain the moral fabric, trust, and stability of his kingdom. He submitted to the agonizing destiny of a ruler, prioritizing the collective over the personal. Deconstructing the Life of Krishna: Cosmic Will and Detached Action While Rama exemplifies the ideal human navigating strict moral boundaries, Lord Krishna is known as Leela Purushottama, the divine who engages in the cosmic play with complete psychological detachment and frequently employs unconventional strategies. Krishna's life contains equal, if not greater, tragedies, yet his psychological posture is one of supreme, unshakeable equanimity. The hardships of Krishna's life began at the exact moment of his birth. He was born in the dark dungeon of his tyrannical uncle, Kamsa. Prior to his birth, all of his older siblings were brutally murdered by Kamsa, a devastating trauma for his parents, Vasudeva and Devaki. He was immediately separated from his biological parents and raised in hiding by foster parents, Nanda and Yashoda, in Gokul. These events were the fruition of complex past karmas and the political reality of the era. Krishna maneuvered through this dangerous destiny to ultimately slay the tyrant, fulfilling his primary earthly duty. Throughout his life, Krishna repeatedly sacrificed personal comfort and idyllic surroundings for the sake of geopolitical duty. He was forced to leave the loving environment of Vrindavan, abandoning his foster family and devotees, to fulfill his political and cosmic duties in Mathura, and eventually orchestrated a massive migration to establish the fortress city of Dwarka to protect his people from repeated invasions. His involvement in the agonizing dynastic struggle of the Pandavas culminated in the Mahabharata war. The annihilation of millions of warriors at Kurukshetra was a heavy cosmic burden. Yet, Krishna operated purely as an instrument of cosmic order, devoid of personal selfishness, territorial ambition, or greed, justifying the carnage solely for the protection of ethical values and the welfare of the world. Perhaps the most perplexing and tragic aspect of Krishna's life is its conclusion—the total destruction of his own family, the Yadava clan, and his solitary death. Following the Kurukshetra war, Queen Gandhari, devastated by the loss of her hundred sons, confronted Krishna. Recognizing that Krishna possessed the power to stop the war but chose not to, she cursed him in a fit of immense grief. She decreed that exactly thirty-six years later, Krishna's Yadava clan would slaughter each other in madness, and Krishna would perish by disgusting means in the wilderness, dying alone while the women of his race wept. Simultaneously, the Yadava youth, intoxicated by unprecedented wealth, power, and arrogance, mocked a group of revered sages (including Vishvamitra and Narada). They dressed Samba, Krishna's son, as a pregnant woman and asked the sages to predict the child's gender. The enraged sages pierced the deception and cursed Samba to give birth to an iron bolt that would be the instrument of the entire clan's destruction. The iron bolt was crushed and thrown into the sea, but the powder washed ashore and grew into sharp Erakā grass. Years later, at Prabhasa, the inebriated Yadavas fell into a massive brawl. When their weapons were exhausted, they plucked the Erakā grass, which miraculously turned into iron clubs in their hands, and proceeded to beat each other to death. Krishna, witnessing this, did not intervene to save them; he even joined in striking down the violent, allowing the curse to fulfill itself entirely. Following the annihilation of his clan and the departure of his brother Balarama, Krishna retreated to the forest. A hunter named Jara, mistaking Krishna's foot for a deer, shot him with an arrow tipped with a surviving piece of the cursed iron bolt. This solitary death honored a previous boon/curse from the volatile Sage Durvasa. Once, Durvasa had asked Krishna to smear payasam (rice pudding) over his body. Krishna complied but omitted the soles of his feet out of reverence for the food. Durvasa subsequently declared that Krishna's body would be invulnerable everywhere except his feet. Krishna, possessing supreme divine power, could have easily neutralized Gandhari's curse, the sages' curse, and Durvasa's vulnerability. However, he willingly accepted and facilitated these events for several profound philosophical reasons: Validation of Devotion and Asceticism: Krishna accepted Gandhari's curse to honor her immense power of Pativrata (lifelong devotion and sacrifice for her husband) and to validate the spiritual authority of the ascetics. The Impartiality of Karma: The Yadava clan had grown excessively powerful and corrupt, devolving into alcoholism, immorality, and disrespect for elders. The divine law dictates that absolute power corrupted by Adharma must be destroyed. Krishna submitted his own lineage to this law, proving that not even the family of God is exempt from karmic consequences. The Cosmic Transition: The destruction of the invincible Yadavas was cosmically necessary to close the Dwapara Yuga and initiate the Kali Yuga. Krishna used the curses as the exact instrument to execute the dissolution of his own clan, as they were too powerful to be defeated by any external military force. Avatar Characteristics Lord Rama Lord Krishna Theological Title Maryada Purushottama (The Ideal Man) Leela Purushottama (The Divine Player) Response to Hardship Expressed human grief; strictly adhered to societal and familial rules; never utilized divine powers to bypass suffering. Maintained supreme detachment; utilized complex political strategies; displayed divine powers when necessary but submitted to curses willingly. End of Life / Lineage Sacrificed personal family life for the kingdom; sons raised away; wife took Samadhi. Orchestrated the destruction of his own corrupt lineage; died a solitary death in the forest by a hunter's arrow. Philosophical Pedagogy Teaches the absolute supremacy of duty (Dharma) over personal desire and the endurance of suffering through righteousness. Teaches the necessity of detached action (Nishkama Karma), the inevitability of cosmic cycles, and the impartial nature of divine justice. Krishna's life demonstrates that the ultimate goal of existence is not to avoid suffering, preserve one's family at the cost of ethics, or manipulate destiny for personal preservation. Rather, it is to act in perfect alignment with the cosmic order, executing one's duty without attachment to the phenomenal results. The Architecture of Karma: Prarabdha and Purushartha To resolve the core paradox—"Why work hard when destiny doesn't even leave these two greats?"—a rigorous understanding of the Hindu framework of Karma is required. The concept of "destiny" is widely misunderstood in popular parlance as an arbitrary script written by a tyrannical deity. In Vedantic and Yogic philosophy, destiny is merely the mathematical accumulation and delayed manifestation of one's own past actions. Karma is traditionally divided into three distinct categories: Sanchita Karma (Accumulated Karma): This is the vast, cumulative repository of all actions, thoughts, and desires performed across countless past incarnations. It represents the total karmic debt and credit of the soul, stored in the causal body. Prarabdha Karma (Fructifying Karma): This is the specific, ripe portion of Sanchita Karma allocated to be experienced in the present incarnation. It determines the unchangeable aspects of a given life: one's parents, genetic makeup, innate talents, and major unavoidable life circumstances. Prarabdha is what colloquially translates to "destiny" or "fate." Agami / Kriyamana Karma (Future / Current Karma): This is the new karma generated in the present moment through the conscious exercise of free will (Purushartha). These are the active choices, efforts, and intentions made in response to current situations, which will shape future destinies. Ancient Indian texts frequently utilize the analogy of an archer to explain this triad. Sanchita Karma is the quiver of arrows strapped to the archer's back, representing all past actions. Prarabdha Karma is the arrow that has already been released from the bow; it is currently in flight, and the archer has absolutely no control over it anymore—it must hit its target and yield its result. Agami Karma is the arrow currently nocked on the bowstring; the archer has total control over the tension, the aim, and the decision to release it. Another illustrative analogy is that of a card game. Prarabdha (destiny) represents the specific hand of cards dealt to a player. The player has no conscious control over the hand they receive; it is predetermined by the shuffling of past actions. However, Purushartha (free will and hard work) is how the player chooses to play that hand. A highly skilled player can win or mitigate losses with a poor hand, while a reckless or lazy player can lose entirely despite being dealt an excellent hand. Therefore, the hardships faced by Rama and Krishna represent their Prarabdha—the specific cosmic arrows already in flight that they had to endure. However, their greatness, and the reason they are worshipped, is entirely due to their Purushartha—how they aimed and fired the arrows currently in their hands despite the incoming barrage. The Yoga Vasistha: The Absolute Supremacy of Self-Effort Nowhere in the vast corpus of Hindu scripture is the concept of fatalism more fiercely dismantled than in the Yoga Vasistha, a monumental philosophical dialogue between the sage Vasistha and a young, disillusioned Lord Rama. When Rama exhibits extreme despair with the transitory and painful nature of the world, appearing ready to abandon his royal duties, Vasistha vigorously champions the absolute supremacy of Purushartha (self-effort) over Daiva (destiny). Vasistha unequivocally states to Rama that "what is called fate is fictitious and is not seen". He argues methodically that what humanity weakly labels as "destiny" or "divine will" is simply the delayed, fructifying result of one's own past self-effort. Therefore, the present moment is in a continuous, dynamic conflict with the past, and whichever force is stronger will inevitably triumph. The text outlines several critical, uncompromising insights regarding the necessity of hard work: The Rejection of Laziness and Fatalism: Vasistha does not mince words, declaring that a lazy man is "worse than a donkey" and attributing poverty, illiteracy, and societal misery directly to a lack of strenuous effort rather than to a cruel God. He asserts that an individual who says, "Fate is directing me to do this," is fundamentally brainless, and that the goddess of fortune swiftly abandons such a person. Overcoming the Weight of the Past: If present efforts are thwarted by seemingly insurmountable obstacles (which one might call destiny), it merely indicates that the present effort is weaker than the accumulated momentum of past actions. The solution prescribed by Vasistha is not to surrender, but to exert even greater effort, "grinding one's teeth" to overcome the past. He uses the analogy of a farmer: if a farmer's crop is destroyed by a sudden hailstorm, it means the natural forces were stronger than his agricultural effort. The correct response is not to weep over the inevitable loss or blame heaven, but to clear the field and plow again with greater determination. The Definition of True Effort: Vasistha clarifies that Purushartha is not merely chaotic, random physical exertion. It is strictly defined as mental, verbal, and physical action that is perfectly aligned with the instructions of the scriptures and the conduct of the wise. Effort driven by blind delusion or destructive desires will only yield further bondage, while right action leads to liberation. From the perspective of the Yoga Vasistha, Rama and Krishna did not succumb to destiny; they met immense past karmic forces with equally immense, perfectly aligned present Purushartha. The Bhagavad Gita and the Mechanics of Choice If the Yoga Vasistha provides the philosophical mandate for hard work, the Bhagavad Gita offers the practical, psychological manual for operating within the severe confines of destiny. The text openly acknowledges that individuals are bound by the modes of material nature (Gunas) and that previous karma creates the physical and environmental framework of one's life. However, the Gita firmly establishes that human consciousness retains the ultimate freedom to choose its response. The Right to Action and Detachment from Fruits In Chapter 2, Verse 47, Lord Krishna declares the central axiom of Karma Yoga, which perfectly balances the reality of destiny with the necessity of hard work: "You have the right to action alone, never to its fruits. Do not be motivated by the fruits of action, nor be attached to inaction" (Karmany evadhikaras te ma phalesu kadacana). This single verse resolves the paradox. The "right to action" guarantees and demands Purushartha. Humans have total autonomy over their intentions, their ethical choices, and the sheer amount of hard work they invest in any endeavor. However, the injunction "never to its fruits" acknowledges the reality of Prarabdha and cosmic variables. The final outcome of an action depends on a multitude of factors beyond individual control, including time (Kala), divine will (Daiva), and the accumulated karma of all involved parties. By acting vigorously but without psychological attachment to the specific results, an individual stops creating new binding karma. When hard work is performed as a sacred offering to the Supreme, rather than for selfish ego-gratification, the chains of destiny are broken. Action continues, but bondage ceases. The Ultimate Endorsement of Free Will The most profound endorsement of human free will occurs at the very conclusion of the Bhagavad Gita. After imparting the most profound esoteric wisdom to Arjuna, spanning eighteen chapters that detail cosmic mechanics, the nature of the soul, the interplay of the gunas, and the rigorous paths of duty, knowledge, and devotion, Lord Krishna does not command Arjuna to blindly obey. Instead, in Chapter 18, Verse 63, Krishna states: "Thus, I have explained to you this knowledge that is more secret than all secrets. Ponder over it deeply, and then do as you wish" (vimṛśyaitad aśeṣeṇa yathechchhasi tathā kuru). This verse is a revolutionary theological statement. The Supreme Lord entirely respects the autonomy of the individual soul. The divine provides the framework, the metaphysical knowledge, and the insight, but explicitly steps back to allow the human intellect to make its own choices. God does not forcefully override the limited independence of the living entity. True spiritual evolution cannot be coerced by a dictatorial deity; it must be the result of a conscious, deliberate, and voluntary exercise of Purushartha. Synthesizing Fate and Free Will: The Purpose of Human Striving Swami Sivananda, a preeminent twentieth-century Vedantic scholar, synthesized these seemingly contradictory forces by explaining that fate and free will are not two opposing entities, but two phases of the exact same continuous process. "Prarabdha and Purushartha, fate and free will, are not two different entities, but only two different names to indicate the same set of actions viewed from a particular point of time". Sivananda offers a profound psychological insight into human nature: people frequently and proudly claim success as the direct result of their own dynamic Purushartha, but conveniently blame their failures on a vague, insurmountable Prarabdha (Taqdeer/Fate) to avoid taking responsibility. He explains that the true, practical utility of the "Theory of Destiny" is solely to provide psychological comfort in the face of irreversible tragedy, allowing the individual to grieve, accept the inevitable, and then move forward without paralyzing guilt. Conversely, the "Theory of Free Will" exists to boost morale, urging the individual to rise, exert themselves, and shape a glorious future destiny through present action. As Sivananda notes, "You sow an action and reap a tendency. You sow a tendency and reap a habit. You sow a habit and reap your character. You sow your character and reap your destiny". Therefore, destiny is entirely self-created, and it is only through sustained Purushartha that the habits forming a negative destiny can be systematically dismantled. The Framework of Human Experience Domain of Influence Philosophical Limitation The Required Human Response Prarabdha (Destiny/Fate) Material circumstances, birth family, innate talents, physical ailments, unavoidable external events. Can only dictate the physical and environmental parameters; cannot force the mind to react unethically. Acceptance & Surrender: Enduring the unavoidable with grace, equanimity, and without bitter complaint or victimization. Purushartha (Self-Effort) Conscious choices, ethical responses, spiritual practices, daily labor, building of new habits. Constrained only by the physical parameters currently set by past karma, but capable of rewriting future karma. Vigorous Action: Pursuing Dharma relentlessly, applying maximum effort, and transforming the internal character. Phala (Results) The specific physical outcome of any endeavor (success, failure, wealth, poverty). Dependent on a complex matrix of time, past karma, the actions of others, and divine will. Detachment: Maintaining focus on the excellence of the action itself, remaining mentally untouched by the fluctuation of results. Why We Must Work Hard: The Ultimate Answer We return to the fundamental query that initiated this inquiry: If destiny is strong enough to inflict such tremendous suffering upon the Avatars Rama and Krishna, why should an ordinary human being engage in hard work? The synthesis of Hindu philosophy provides several definitive answers: Destiny Determines the Terrain, Free Will Determines the Journey The core misconception lies in the modern assumption that "hard work" is a transactional currency meant to guarantee a pain-free, perfectly comfortable, and materially prosperous life. The lives of the Avatars prove that physical comfort is not the ultimate metric of a successful existence. Destiny dictates the terrain one must walk—whether it is a royal palace in Ayodhya, a forest exile in Dandakaranya, a prison cell in Mathura, or a blood-soaked battlefield in Kurukshetra. However, Purushartha (hard work and ethical exertion) determines how one walks that terrain. Rama's eternal greatness is not derived from magically avoiding his exile, but from the nobility, courage, and adherence to truth with which he conducted himself during it. Krishna's supremacy is not in preventing the cosmic destruction of the Yadavas, but in maintaining absolute, joyful equanimity as the unyielding laws of the universe unfolded. Inaction is an Illusion and a Trap Abandoning hard work out of fatalistic despair is a philosophical fallacy. The Bhagavad Gita asserts that no one can remain actionless even for a moment, as the intricate forces of nature (Gunas) compel all beings to act physically and mentally. If a person abandons righteous, directed effort, they will not achieve peace; they will simply be dragged helplessly by their baser instincts (Tamas and Rajas) and negative tendencies (Vasanas). Laziness and fatalism do not stop the clock of destiny; they merely ensure that the individual accumulates highly negative Agami Karma, plunging them deeper into suffering and bondage in future cycles. Effort Alters the Inner Landscape While external, physical outcomes may sometimes be blocked by severe Prarabdha, sincere hard work continuously purifies the mind. As the Yoga Vasistha and Vedantic texts note, the true, highest purpose of self-effort is not merely the acquisition of wealth (Artha) or the avoidance of pain, but the attainment of spiritual liberation (Moksha). When a person exercises Purushartha by controlling the senses, acting with compassion, and performing duties selflessly, they gradually dissolve their ego and burn away ignorance. The external destiny may remain harsh, but the internal suffering vanishes. The individual becomes a witness, unperturbed by the swinging pendulum of worldly pleasure and pain. The Fulfillment of the Four Goals of Life Hinduism prescribes the framework of the four Purusharthas—Dharma (righteous duty), Artha (material wealth), Kama (legitimate desire), and Moksha (liberation)—as the blueprint for a complete human life. These goals explicitly demand dynamic, continuous effort. One cannot achieve Artha to support their family or fulfill their Dharma to society without hard work. Even if past destiny presents obstacles in acquiring wealth, the effort put into the attempt is what aligns the individual with cosmic order. The effort itself is the manifestation of divinity within the human frame. Conclusion The proposition that the extreme hardships of Lord Rama and Lord Krishna render human effort meaningless is a fundamental misinterpretation of the theology of the Avatar and the mechanics of Karma. The Avatars did not descend to the earthly plane to showcase a life of magical convenience, free from the struggles of mortality. They descended to demonstrate how the human spirit, armed with unyielding righteousness, psychological detachment, and relentless effort, can transcend the most brutal machinations of fate. Rama's tears in the forest for his abducted wife, and Krishna's silent, composed acceptance of his clan's annihilation, are not signs of their pathetic subjection to a merciless destiny. Rather, they are testaments to their supreme solidarity with the human condition. They submitted to the rigorous laws of the universe to prove that those laws are sacred, and that the ultimate spiritual victory lies not in escaping the law through miracles, but in fulfilling it with absolute honor and integrity. Destiny (Prarabdha) is simply the unchangeable, delayed echo of our own past actions. To surrender to it in a state of lethargic fatalism is to surrender one's divine inheritance. The canonical texts of the Bhagavad Gita and the Yoga Vasistha emphatically demand dynamic, intelligent action. Every single moment of conscious choice is a fresh deployment of Purushartha. Through hard work, ethical discipline, and detached action, the individual seizes control of the chisel and begins carving their future destiny. Therefore, humanity must continue to strive and work hard precisely because destiny is powerful. It is only through the furnace of relentless, dedicated effort that past karmic debts are paid, the mind is purified of its base attachments, and the soul eventually breaks free from the cycle of circumstances altogether, abiding in eternal, self-luminous peace.

Parv Dasani 9 years This review is worth reading because it offers an engaging glimpse into Raja Dheeraj, highlighting its captivating storytelling, spectacular performances, stunning VFX, and live music. It also provides honest feedback on minor flaws, helping readers decide whether this devotional mega-musical is worth watching. Official Site: https://dhanrajnathwani.com/rajadhiraaj/ A magnificent display of art, culture and timeless stories about Lord Krishna Few days ago, I had headed out to watch the compelling play, Raja Dheeraj, presented in the Grand Theatre of the NMACC (Nita Mukesh Ambani Cultural Centre) in the prestigious area of the Bandra Kurla Complex. I must say, it was a thrilling show, not a monotonous one as I had expected. Before, my idea of a play was a lacklustre show with some dance, drama and singing. This one, nevertheless, was quite the opposite. The name ‘Grand Theatre’ is the perfect way to name the setting of the show. It’s a vast, grand place, spanning three floors, each having four gates. It’s a circular theatre consisting approximately 2000 seats, facing a proscenium stage. The ground floor features premium sections such as VIP and Platinum seats, and classic ground-viewing, called the ‘Gold’ section. The first level houses Royal Boxes, private boxes which offer food and drinks along with a completely free view, and the Dress Circle, a semicircular area with comfortable seats in the elevated middle, providing a complete, enthralling view of the play. The second floor has an open balcony, offering panoramic views and complete enjoyment of orchestras and dances. There was a special feature too! Every seat had a speaker underneath it, helping everyone listen attentively, and enjoy the play with loud, clear speech and musical performances. Raja Dheeraj is a spectacular mega-musical play that brings to life the epic story of Shri Krishna, tracking his evolution from a mischievous child in Vrindavan to the sovereign King of Kings in Dwarka. Directed by Shruti Sharma and written by Prasoon Joshi, the grand production has featured the art of over 180 performers, amazing choreography, and immersive musical performances by Bollywood composer Sachin Jigar. The narrative is deeply immersed in devotion, opening with a stunning homage to Shrinathji and building up to a visually overwhelming story of the Vishwa Roopam (his cosmic form), all brought to life with a massive scale, vibrant costumes, and breathtaking visual effects. The First Half - Joyful Stories of Krishna’s Childhood The excellent first half features strong, devotional stories of Krishna’s lively, gleeful time as a young child. The play kicked off with a vibrant celebration of Janmashtami in a small town. A brilliant piece of acting from all performers is definitely validated in this scene. A young girl is curious about the various tales of Lord Krishna and is hungry for more exciting ones. The traditional story of Krishna’s birth is depicted in the best possible manner. Krishna, reaching Gokula, grows into a brave, humorous child, stealing butter from the very tops of houses, and enjoying it to the fullest. His bravery is no less as well, lifting a whole hill to protect his town from the harsh rains brought by Lord Indra, and that too for seven days! Truly impeccable, right? Word reaches about Kamsa’s fate to Gokula, and Krishna receives and invitation for single combat against the cruel king of Mathura. Knowing that he did have the potential to beat the mighty, evil king, Krishna left with Balarama, with only one goal – to destroy Kamsa for once and for all. Of course, he succeeds and throws Kamsa off his prized throne, despite all the royal might Kamsa had and all the circumstances he was facing. This began his reputation as a brave, powerful, just and happy king. The Second Half - The King of Kings, Raja Dheeraj In the remarkable, inspirational second half, Krishna has grown into a responsible adult. There are distinctive arts and lesser-known stories in this wonderful half. Let us have a look at its astonishing tales. It kicks off with a story centring around benevolence, right in Gokul. A girl residing at the very top of the hill Govardhan is visited by an erudite sage, who is really compassionate and understands her thoughts perfectly. Then, the brilliant tale of Rukmini is shown with complete passion and depicted in an extraordinary play. The classic of Krishna taking her away from the cunning, wicked Shishupala is of course, a must – watch. A seventeenth century tale is performed with impeccable art and loads of emotion. A chariot’s wheel breaks down and the passengers reside in the prosperous, yet small kingdom of Mewar. After this, was the end of the extraordinary show! There was a special feature in the performance. All the songs were sung and composed live! With pieces from Sachin Jigar’s creative mind, these were absolutely brilliant! My feedback is brilliant, just with a few minor errors here and there. I’d rate it something around 89/100. It was quite a breathtaking performance, the stories were defined clearly and perfectly, and the artists made a spectacular show too. It’s VFX was almost a masterclass, with just a few coordination errors. In the second half, the story formation and choice both were really great, but not as brilliant as the first half. Two noticeable confusing aspects were… The instant jump from many hundreds of years back to the 17th century was rather jarring and took few minutes to realize. Lord Krishna played a key role in the Mahabharat, yet scenes from the epic were not included. Yet, the replacement stories were lesser-known, so they educated many (including me!) and the artists performed flawlessly, completely making up for the exclusion of the Mahabharat. I highly recommend this show for anyone, specially to those who believe in lord Krishna and his various leelas. It’s a breathtaking play with colourful scenes, brilliant acting and devotion led performances.

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Priya Chaturvedi Global Markets Professional, avid reader, finding rhythm in semi-classical dance and expression in Hindi verse. LinkedIn The poem beautifully celebrates the teacher as a potter, navigator, healer, and benefactor who shapes lives, dispels ignorance, nurtures humanity, and illuminates the path with wisdom, knowledge, compassion, and selfless guidance. शिक्षक ही वह कुम्भकार जो मृद भांडों में जीवन डाले, बाहर से कर चोट लगाकर भीतर मृद घट को सुघड़ रूप में ढाले, मेरे जीवन के घट का सुंदर आकार वही। शिक्षक ही वह नाविक है जो भव सागर को पार कराये, अनुभव से अनभिज्ञ नाव को नित लहरों का भाव बताये, फंसी हुई जीवन तरणी को तट का आह्वान वही। शिक्षक ही वह निपुण वैद्य जो जड़ता का उपचार करे, कर शब्दों से मन की शल्य चिकित्सा मानवता पर उपकार करे, अज्ञानता की व्याधि को संजीवनी वही। शिक्षक वह निर्धन कुबेर है जिसके पास ज्ञान की अलका, मरुथल में जल का आभास सभी स्रोत वही निर्मल जल का, जड़ जीवन में चेतन का अक्षय कोष वही। शिक्षक ही वह दानवीर जो सहज ज्ञान का दान करे, विद्या का धन देकर भी मन में न कभी अभिमान करे, अज्ञानता से पूर्ण पथ में ज्ञान का आलोक वही।

Sandeep Mishra Electrical Engineer, Gold Medalist, Senior Executive, Poet, Tabla Enthusiast. ईश्वर ने सबको हुनर दिया है हम करते यों ही अभिमान हर प्राणी से मिल सकता है हम सबको जीने का ज्ञान। चींटी से कर्मठता सीखो चिड़ियों से घर का निर्माण चीते सी गति हो सभी में शेरों के चलने की शान। कोयल से सीखें मीठी बोली कौऐ से सफाई अभियान हिरणों से चंचलता ले लो बगुले से धीरज और ध्यान। पेड़ों से फल देना सीखो फूलों से खुशबू का दान महक उठे हम सबका जीवन प्रकृति से यदि हम लें संज्ञान। संदीप मिश्रा १८/१०/१९ English Translation: Wisdom to live The Divine has blessed everyone with a unique talent; Yet, we take pride in ourselves. From every creature, we can learn The wisdom of how to live. Learn hard work from the tiny ant, And from birds, how to build a home. Let everyone possess the speed of a cheetah, And the graceful stride of a lion. From the cuckoo, learn to speak sweetly, From the crow, the habit of keeping things clean. Take playfulness from the deer, And from the heron, patience and deep focus. Learn from trees the art of giving fruit, And from flowers, the gift of fragrance. Our lives too will blossom with goodness If we learn from nature and truly understand its wisdom. — Sandeep Mishra 18/10/19

Ivaan Gugnani 9 years Think you know a lot about India’s freedom struggle? It’s time to put your skills to the test with this quiz. 1.Complete this Mahatma Gandhi quote: “Be the _______ that you wish to see in the world” 2. How many times was Jawaharlal Nehru jailed? A) 0 B) 100 C) 9 D) 2 3. How was Bhagat Singh killed by the British? A) He was shot in a protest B) He was hanged C) He caught a disease in jail D) He was guillotined 4. True or false: Batukeshwar Dutt was executed in the freedom struggle. (True/False) 5. How much distance was covered by Mahatma Gandhi and other freedom fighters during the Dandi Salt March? A) 240 miles B) 5 miles C) 36 miles D) 100 miles 6. Why was Gandhi never prime minister? A) Jawaharlal Nehru won the elections B) He deliberately refused C) He was too old to become prime minister D) He was assassinated before he could apply for the position 7. To escape house arrest in 1941, Subhas Chandra Bose disguised himself as an insurance agent called _________________ . 8. How long did it take to write the constitution of India? A) 2 years, 11 months, and 18 days B) 1 day C) 5 years, 2 months, and 7 days D) 1 year and 8 months 9. True or false: Jawaharlal Nehru said,” Swaraj is my birthright and I shall have it.” (True/False) 10. India officially got freedom at ___________ between August 14 and 15, 1947. Answers: 1.Change, 2C, 3B, 4.False, 5A, 6B, 7.Mohammad Ziauddin, 8A, 9.False, 10.Midnight

Kaalika-The Rise of Raktbeej Poonam Desai Author Chapter 19 Sharvari and Kasar sat in the interrogation room surrounded by several officers of the CBI. “Why so many of them?” Sharvari whispered. “This isn’t protocol, something is off,” Kasar replied. A tall, bald man pulled a chair before them, whilst the others waited. “I am Mr. Kenkare and I am the chief investigator on this case…..” He continued explaining the facts but Sharvari was distracted. A shadow at the back of the room moved to the officer behind Mr. Kenkare. “So why did you do it?” He raised his voice, moving closer to Sharvari. The shadow bounced to the next officer. “Did you plant the bomb or did you send someone to do your dirty work.” The officer banged his fist on the table. “Look now officer take it easy,” Kasar raised his hand. The shadow swooped over Mr. Kenkare and he smashed Kasar’s face down on the desk and ground his teeth. “You think you are smart? You think being on the force gives you leverage? Let me tell you, you will be punished.” Kasar struggled under his strong grip. Sharvari stared at this odd scene. She closed her eyes and prayed, ‘Dilan find a way soon, I don’t know how long we can hold on.’ Dilan was meditating before the goddesses. He heard Sharvari’s plea and felt her anguish in his mind. He channelled his powers to his mind and focussed on the link. Sharvari felt a warmth spread through her body. Seeing Kasar bent helpless on the desk agitated her. She stood and roared, “Let go!” The officers all backed down. The shadow dissipated. Kasar rubbed his neck. The men in the room looked confused. Mr. Kenkare looked at his subordinates and gave a terse command, “Get out, since when do we have so many people in the interrogation room.” Kasar looked at Sharvari. Her eyes glowed and she bared her teeth at Kenkare. “Sharvari, calm down, I am fine,” he said. Mr. Kenkare sighed and continued interrogating them. Their alibis stood. The guards at the DIG house confirmed they were nowhere near the site of incidence. What was suspected as bombing was now suspected to be faulty power lines and a short circuit. After two days of grilling them the CBI let them off on a warning. “We are watching you, don’t skip town and stay available on call.” Mr. Kenkare warned. Tired, hungry and miserable Sharvari and Kasar headed home. Sharvari showered, mulling over the happenings of past two days. The power she had experienced when Kasar was struck had felt inhuman. It felt like Dilan. But how? Her mind refused to accept this. She towelled her head and switched on the news. The newsreader droned on about the findings in Raghav Sinha’s death and the surprising appointment of Hiranya Kashyap. She smirked. “I had expected a physical fight, but this is what war feels like. Dirty tricks and manipulations.” She picked the remote to switch channels when the reporter began speaking about the Havan at Kaalimath 4 days later. ‘The PM along with Hiranya Kashyap and a guest of honour who hasn’t been revealed yet will grace the occasion. The nation needs prayers along with efforts at this time of sorrow….’ “What are you upto Raktbeej? What is your plan? You are going to hurt the PM for sure, but when and how.” Sharvari muttered. Her phone rang. It was Dilan. “Hey,” she said. “Are you guys, okay?” “Yes. Tell me.” “I think I know how to defeat Raktbeej without you devouring or drinking his blood.” “How,” Sharvari asked, her voice curious. “We dehydrate him.” Her mouth fell open. “How on earth are we going to pull this off?” Image courtesy -

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Dr. Devyani Rozario Website I met my neighbour just outside our building, looking very anxious. I gently asked if there was a problem. His answer shocked me. He said he was waiting for the delivery person to get the chart paper for his son, and it was almost time for the school bus to arrive. He added that my son has developed a habit of forgetting to tell us what the school has asked for, and he only remembers it in the morning. Thanks to the instant delivery service, we get the stuff! “Instant” products were invented to save time, yet it makes you feel more rushed than ever. You are living life from moment to moment. The Convenience Trap We began with instant coffee to save a few minutes; we ended up with a lifestyle where everything must be immediate. While we believe we are gaining time, we are losing our Cognitive Sovereignty. This shift toward “Hyper-Convenience” has profound effects on how we function, from the biology of our brains to the character of our children. You may not have realised that this shift toward “Hyper-Convenience”, has profound effects on how you function. Here is a breakdown of what this “instant” culture is doing to you: The Body: Constant Low-Level Stress Our bodies weren’t designed for the constant “ping” of digital urgency. The Silent Alarm: Every notification and “instant” demand triggers a micro-stress response. Over time, this keeps our cortisol levels elevated, which can lead to fatigue and poor sleep. The “Sedentary Speed”: Paradoxically, as our digital lives move faster, our physical lives move less. We order food, groceries, and entertainment with a thumb-swipe, leading to a more sedentary lifestyle. Wired and Tired: The “instant” world never sleeps. The ability to engage with work or social media at 3 AM disrupts our natural biological rhythms. Our Life: The Depth Crisis When everything is instant, life can start to feel “shallow”- fast-paced but lacking depth. Value vs. Speed: We often confuse “fast” with “good.” We choose the instant solution over the quality solution, whether it’s a ready-to-eat microwave meal or a superficial digital message over a real in-person conversation. Delayed Gratification: This is the “secret sauce” of human success. Studies show that the ability to wait for a reward is the key to success in many aspects of life from relationships to innovations. The Erosion of Executive Function Convenience is the enemy of foresight. When the “undo” button for our mistakes is a 10-minute delivery app, we stop exercising the mental muscles required to look ahead. This “Instant Recovery” lifestyle fundamentally alters our Executive Function – the set of mental skills that include working memory, flexible thinking, self-control and patience. Let us look at this in depth. The Death of the "Mental Map" (Memory) In the past, making an omelette required a mental inventory check before you even cracked the first eggshell. You had to hold the “state” of your fridge in your mind. The Shift: We no longer “store” information in our mind, we simply “outsource” it to the app. If we find we are out of eggs, we order them instantly. The Result: Our Working Memory weakens. If you know you can bridge any gap with a click, your brain stops prioritizing the storage of mundane but necessary details. We become “forgetful” because we have abandoned the vital act of memory retrieval. The Erosion of Patience The brain is highly elastic; it adapts to the environment we give it. When we get what we want immediately, we reinforce the dopamine loop. The result: Decreased Attention Span: We are becoming “skimmers.” If a thought or a piece of content requires deep focus, our brains—trained for the quick hit—signal boredom and urge us to switch tasks. Low Frustration Tolerance: When life doesn’t move at the speed of 5G, we experience disproportionate stress and irritability. Loss of “Experience”: We’ve become obsessed with the result (the coffee, the fit body, the promotion) and have lost the ability to find value in the process. Example: You feel like eating sponge cake – you have the option of a one-click order, but you decide to bake it. This excitement of preparing and the “forced wait” when you are baking the cake helps you not only enjoy the process but delay the gratification of eating the cake. Effectively, it not only builds excitement but helps to build your patience and enjoy the experience. Strategic Planning vs. Reactive Firefighting Planning is a “Time Travel” exercise: “If I want X tomorrow, I must do Y today.” In an instant world, this bridge is burned. The Planning Paradox: When we can solve a problem instantly, we stop planning and start reacting. The Loss of “Chain Reactions”: We lose the ability to see how today’s neglect creates tomorrow’s crisis. We begin to live in a permanent, reactive “Now,” which makes long-term projects like a thesis or a career path -feel insurmountable later in life because we’ve lost the “Breadth of Time.” This affects our behaviour and decision-making abilities. The Impact on the Child: The "Safety Net" Trap Consider the common modern dilemma: A child realizes they need craft paper for school just 30 minutes before the school bus arrives. If the parent instantly orders it via an app to “save the day,” a critical learning opportunity is lost. Responsibility Erosion: Responsibility is built through the “sting” of a mistake. If a child faces the social discomfort of explaining a missing item to a teacher, their brain records that discomfort. This “sting” is the biological fuel for future planning. The Loss of Resourcefulness: When solutions are digital transactions, children never learn to “make do,” substitute materials, or negotiate with a friend. They learn that the solution to every problem is a transaction, not a thought process. The Final Insight Just because we can have it now doesn’t mean we should. There is a certain “mental virtue” that only grows when we are forced to wait. That “mental virtue” is patience, it helps in regulating emotion. Patience behaves exactly like a muscle: it only grows under resistance, or you may term it as forced waiting. Here is why this virtue is unique: It transforms frustration into stillness: It builds the ability to hold a desire without immediately acting on it. It reduces anxiety: It helps you accept the “gap” between wanting something and getting it, making you less reactive to uncertainty. It boosts self-control: It strengthens your ability to bypass instant gratification in favour of long-term rewards. You move from being a passive consumer to being the architect of your life. Friction over Convenience: By choosing friction over convenience, you are not making your life harder, but effectively, you are making your brain sturdier. Reclaiming Planning: This boosts your memory and helps you to improve your cognitive function strengthening planning and strategizing. It builds resilience and teaches that actions have consequences. We are “biologically misaligned with the instant culture. Our nervous systems are reacting to a delivery notification with the same chemical spike our ancestors used to escape predators. We are using “survival energy” to track a package even if insignificant. Convenience is a tool, but friction is a teacher. Every time you choose the ‘slow way’- the hand-ground coffee, the walk to the store, or the difficult conversation instead of the text, you are performing a quiet act of rebellion. In this way, you are reclaiming your cognitive sovereignty. Stop being a slave to the ‘instant’ and start becoming the architect of your life.